What should I NOT wear to a first date?

Wear something brand new that you haven't tested for comfort. Go head-to-toe designer or label-heavy — it can seem like trying too hard. Wear anything you'll be tugging at or adjusting all night. Ignore the weather — arriving soaked or freezing is a bad start. Overdo cologne or perfume

What to Wear to a First Date

A first date outfit should make you feel confident, not costumed. Wear something that represents how you dress at your best — not a complete departure from your daily style.

Dress Code

Match the venue. A cocktail bar warrants something sharper than a coffee shop. The common mistake is overdressing for a casual setting or underdressing for a nice restaurant.

Do

Wear something you've worn before and feel great in
Dress for the venue and activity (not just to impress)
Choose one conversation-starting piece: an interesting color, a watch, a scarf
Make sure you're comfortable enough to relax and be yourself
Pay attention to grooming details: clean shoes, pressed clothes, neat hair

Don't

Wear something brand new that you haven't tested for comfort
Go head-to-toe designer or label-heavy — it can seem like trying too hard
Wear anything you'll be tugging at or adjusting all night
Ignore the weather — arriving soaked or freezing is a bad start
Overdo cologne or perfume

Best Colors

Blue

Studies consistently show blue is rated as the most attractive and trustworthy color.

Burgundy

Warm, confident, and subtly romantic without being obvious.

White

Clean and fresh. A white top instantly sharpens any outfit.

Soft Green

Calm and approachable. Works well for daytime dates.

Charcoal

More interesting than black, less formal, and universally flattering.

Teal

Distinctive and attractive. Signals confidence and originality.

Outfit Ideas

Dinner Date

Well-fitted dark trousers with a button-down in blue or burgundy. Leather shoes or clean boots.

Coffee or Walk

Dark jeans with a quality crew-neck sweater and clean sneakers. A jacket layered on top.

Cocktail Bar

Tailored pants with a knit top or silk blouse. Heeled boots or pointed flats.

Activity Date

Fitted joggers or chinos with a solid tee and a light jacket. Comfortable, stylish sneakers.

Seasonal Note

Spring/summer: lighter fabrics and colors, rolled sleeves, sandals or loafers. Fall/winter: layered textures, boots, and a great jacket that completes the look.